BoyBrumby
Englishman
I would imagine most girls tend to view one's friends totally differently to oneself & that's equally true of girlfriends. What I see as a largely amiable group of sport-obsessed borderline alkies girls probably see as sexual selection pack: the tall one, the husky (fat) one, the young one, the angular one...
Then, of course, if your gf met you when out with said friends the chances are she probably fancied one or other of your mates more than you initially.
It's a minefield best left unexplored for mine.
I never have had a crack at a mate's ex, but one of my mates had a brief pop at one of mine & I inadvertently put the wind up him about it. I split up with my pre-uni bird whilst away at uni (as is generally the way of things) & upon my return for the Easter hols went out with my mates for a booze to catch up. I heartily slapped said mate on the back & asked him "How's your lovelife?" & a few moments later I was pulled aside by another mate to say "You are ok with X going out with Y, aren't you? He's really worried now."
I explained it was pure coincidence (I had no idea) & wasn't (all that) bothered. Thought it a bit cheeky tho. & was pleased he didn't get any.
Then, of course, if your gf met you when out with said friends the chances are she probably fancied one or other of your mates more than you initially.
It's a minefield best left unexplored for mine.
I never have had a crack at a mate's ex, but one of my mates had a brief pop at one of mine & I inadvertently put the wind up him about it. I split up with my pre-uni bird whilst away at uni (as is generally the way of things) & upon my return for the Easter hols went out with my mates for a booze to catch up. I heartily slapped said mate on the back & asked him "How's your lovelife?" & a few moments later I was pulled aside by another mate to say "You are ok with X going out with Y, aren't you? He's really worried now."
I explained it was pure coincidence (I had no idea) & wasn't (all that) bothered. Thought it a bit cheeky tho. & was pleased he didn't get any.
