Langeveldt said:
1) Yeah I agree.. Marriage these days is hardly worth the paper its documented on.. Why get married when millions just abuse it, making it worthless?? I think same sex marriage makes an even bigger mockery on the whole thing.. It isnt natural, its contrived and tacky.. And its hardly likely to lower the divorce rate IMO...
2) Same sex marriage and adopting children is an absolute outrage because it denies the child a basic right which is to have a mother to look up too.. I know these kids have been displaced, but when you settle them back, they still have no mother.. It kind of defeats the whole object of settling them into new families..
If a mixed race couple can live with each other and an adopted child, then so be it.. Don't see any reason why they couldn't be as fitting as any same race heterosexual couple..
1) I just firmly believe that gays should be entitled to be legally married. It doesn't matter whether it has nothing to do with the church, I think its their right. By law someone with a sex change can marry right? (I may be wrong) Well I see that as more unnatural than two men or women marrying each other under the law and being able to have all the benefits of marriage such as joint contracts as well as the harmonious 'stuff'.
2) I haven't totally made up my mind about gays adopting. First off, two gay women may want to adopt, so its not the basic right of a mother that is being denied, but father too
However, I am suspicious that it could cause problems as the kid grows with trauma etc. so that's why I'm not fully sold. But I think of hypocrisies. What if the law came out and said that mix race couples couldn't adopt, because it would cause possible teasing for the kid as he/she grows and matures. I mean that would be unjust right? So the way I see it, its the same for gay marriage.
However your point regarding the basic right of a father/mother is a very strong one. Much more solid than one claiming the kid may grow up suffering from trauma and anguish etc. I applaud you on that one. What I must ask though is, what's the difference between that, and a single dad raising his child due to a divorce resulting in his mother leaving or not having custardy of the children?
Just food for thought, like I said I'm not decided one way or the next on that issue.