cpr
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As Fred states, the help is there for those who come forward to ask for it - The Samaritans have publicly stated they have received a huge increase in calls from people worried and scared about their sexual desires, and want to know where to turn to for help.
Lets take Zorax's opening argument
'Assuming you are not a part of producing or consuming child pornography, that you have never laid hands of a child, and the only images/videos you get yourself off on are those available in the public domain...who are you hurting?'
Well, one could pass forward an argument that if a person is using an image not produced for sexual gratification, and no-one finds out, then technically no, no one is getting hurt. But then couldn't you say that about other voyeuristic activity where the perpetrator does not get caught in the act - taking photo's of women's rear's whilst they are out shopping, peering though bedroom windows....You are going into a rather nasty grey area - who knows the reason for the picture being taken. A child might be fully clothed and think its innocent, but if the photographer knows they/others will 'enjoy' the picture, the child is still being exploited. These public domain pictures could be 30 years old, and the photographed child may have their own grown up children, however if it was taken for an exploitive reason then its still hurting someone to this day. If these pictures are still being viewed, then someone will decide there is a market for new, unseen pictures to be made, and children still get exploited.
I suppose the great sin of the internet is more people can get caught up in this - I presume its far easier to search for images by yourself from a PC than it would've been 20 years ago. Then to be a paedophile meant knowing others, or making your own. Now I suppose any curious person can spend a few hours and probably find something akin to child porn if they want to. Maybe these people will never go beyond looking at pictures, but those pictures are being made by someone for their gratification, and as such are fuelling the issue.
There's been a case in the news recently over here, of a school teacher caught with pictures. A happily married man with children, a wife who loved him so, and no complaint he's ever done anything with his children, or laid a hand on others. But he probably started with pictures he saw online, and by the time he came to the police attention he'd taken voyeuristic pictures of children at his school, and had tried to buy some pictures online. A few days after being released on bail he committed suicide.
Now this case says two things to me
1) Because of the internet increasing the ease and access to this stuff, and because its so hard to police, what starts as a curiosity that probably would never have taken off pre-internet becomes an unchecked interest that grows and expands. Whilst not every person who downloads a child picture will go down this route, its possible in many cases it may, and thus Zorax's original question starts to be answered - You are only hurting yourself at first, but unchecked you may well go on to hurt others.
2) He's not the first, nor the last, to commit suicide when it all comes to light, which to me does back up one of Zorax's later points - where is the help for those who find themselves on this path? As Fred said the help is there, but how easy is it to get? Anyone can find themselves in a Alcohol/Drug rehab place, and most will know they were on this path anyway, and feel sympathy/pity/disdain. But to check yourself in for paedophilia treatment? Well no-one saw that coming, disdain is the best reaction you can hope for. Hell celebrities love checking in for 'sex-addiction' rehab, imagine going to that place and asking for treatment for an addiction to children......
As ever, its not a black and white issue, and whilst Zorax's original statement made me shudder, there is a little to be taken from that point of view in regards to preventing paedophilia rather than catching it.
Lets take Zorax's opening argument
'Assuming you are not a part of producing or consuming child pornography, that you have never laid hands of a child, and the only images/videos you get yourself off on are those available in the public domain...who are you hurting?'
Well, one could pass forward an argument that if a person is using an image not produced for sexual gratification, and no-one finds out, then technically no, no one is getting hurt. But then couldn't you say that about other voyeuristic activity where the perpetrator does not get caught in the act - taking photo's of women's rear's whilst they are out shopping, peering though bedroom windows....You are going into a rather nasty grey area - who knows the reason for the picture being taken. A child might be fully clothed and think its innocent, but if the photographer knows they/others will 'enjoy' the picture, the child is still being exploited. These public domain pictures could be 30 years old, and the photographed child may have their own grown up children, however if it was taken for an exploitive reason then its still hurting someone to this day. If these pictures are still being viewed, then someone will decide there is a market for new, unseen pictures to be made, and children still get exploited.
I suppose the great sin of the internet is more people can get caught up in this - I presume its far easier to search for images by yourself from a PC than it would've been 20 years ago. Then to be a paedophile meant knowing others, or making your own. Now I suppose any curious person can spend a few hours and probably find something akin to child porn if they want to. Maybe these people will never go beyond looking at pictures, but those pictures are being made by someone for their gratification, and as such are fuelling the issue.
There's been a case in the news recently over here, of a school teacher caught with pictures. A happily married man with children, a wife who loved him so, and no complaint he's ever done anything with his children, or laid a hand on others. But he probably started with pictures he saw online, and by the time he came to the police attention he'd taken voyeuristic pictures of children at his school, and had tried to buy some pictures online. A few days after being released on bail he committed suicide.
Now this case says two things to me
1) Because of the internet increasing the ease and access to this stuff, and because its so hard to police, what starts as a curiosity that probably would never have taken off pre-internet becomes an unchecked interest that grows and expands. Whilst not every person who downloads a child picture will go down this route, its possible in many cases it may, and thus Zorax's original question starts to be answered - You are only hurting yourself at first, but unchecked you may well go on to hurt others.
2) He's not the first, nor the last, to commit suicide when it all comes to light, which to me does back up one of Zorax's later points - where is the help for those who find themselves on this path? As Fred said the help is there, but how easy is it to get? Anyone can find themselves in a Alcohol/Drug rehab place, and most will know they were on this path anyway, and feel sympathy/pity/disdain. But to check yourself in for paedophilia treatment? Well no-one saw that coming, disdain is the best reaction you can hope for. Hell celebrities love checking in for 'sex-addiction' rehab, imagine going to that place and asking for treatment for an addiction to children......
As ever, its not a black and white issue, and whilst Zorax's original statement made me shudder, there is a little to be taken from that point of view in regards to preventing paedophilia rather than catching it.